A friend on Facebook posted this article by Cathy Young on Salon.com. The article does a good job in presenting the arguments for and against men’s rights in the case of abortion. In fact, she does it much better than I probably could. So I won’t be expanding on much. But I did have some thoughts I wanted to share.
If you read this blog on the regular, you know that I am, without a doubt, a pro-life advocate. I’m a pro-lifer less on spiritual grounds and more on scientific ones. It doesn’t take long for the fetus inside of a woman to be a real, living person. Albeit, not one that can live on it’s own yet, but then again, neither is a one year old—yet, we wouldn’t terminate those when they become a logistical problem. At least not without major legal recourse.
A big deciding factor in the argument about women’s right to an abortion is that she should be free to terminate the pregnancy if she’s not ready to be a mother (financially, mentally, or otherwise). Of course, that’s not the only reason women have abortions, but I’m betting it’s the most prominent.
As a pro-lifer, I strongly believe men and women should take responsibility for their choices. If someone makes a bad financial decision and loses everything, the government doesn’t bale them out. It’s understood that sex makes children. In fact, from a totally biological standpoint, that’s really all it does. Sure, we enjoy it, but that’s kind of a nice side effect. So, in the question of whether or not abortion should be legal, I say ‘no’, siding with the government defending the child’s right to live (as it does for all the rest of its citizens), and enforcing responsibility for actions affecting other citizens (like it might in a small claims court between a local business and a scorned customer).
But that’s not really the current legal atmosphere. While I don’t agree with it, I agree even less with the illogical imbalance that exists instead.
Women are free to abort unwanted children for pretty much any reason. The most common probably being that raising a child simply isn’t viable—or simply inconvenient. After making a choice to engage sexually with another person, a woman can later decide against the lasting consequences. And the law defends that right. Men, other the hand have no such ability.
Men who choose to engage in sex have to make the choice prior to intercourse whether or not they’re ready for a child. Whether they like it or not, they may be forced to live with the consequences of their decision (financially at least).
Granted, men don’t have to carry a child to term, they may have to surrender huge portions of their income for the next 21 years. Men working in a steam-fitting factory, for example, could probably argue that the extra work necessary to make a living is just as straining as the nine difficult months of carrying a child.
What I find the most compelling about this is that, even though it doesn’t really make that much sense, the different parties know that changing the legislation could very well be the slippery slope that leads to abortions being outlawed. If men are required to take responsibility for their decisions, why then are women not?
Cathy Young puts it this way:
“…while paternal desertion is often cited as evidence of male irresponsibility and selfishness, more than a million American women every year walk away from the burdens of motherhood.”
While I strongly disagree with the legislation that allows for millions of babies to be terminated, it adds insult to injury that the legislation doesn’t even pass its own test for logic and reason.